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Important Guidelines:
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Avoid instant replies
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Waiting time is 3-5 days. If you want a single number: 72 hours minimum
Acceptance Message (After their application is successful)
Subject: Entry into the House of Lebo Grand
Your reflection has been received and considered.
You are invited to enter the House of Lebo Grand through the Sensual Initiation.
The initiation unfolds over twelve weeks and is held through weekly private mentoring, guided by pacing, refinement, and discernment.
The Initiation is held at $9,000 USD.
Should you wish to proceed, reply with "I am ready."
Details for confirming your entry will then be shared.
If you require time, take it.
The House dos not rush decisions.
Warmly,
Lebo Grand
The House of Lebo Grand
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Confirmation Message (Sent after "I am ready")
Subject: Confirmation to Entry
Welcome.
To confirm your entry into the House of Lebo Grand, please review the following:
The Sensual Initiation is held at $9,000 USD.
You may confirm your entry in one of the following ways:
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Single Commitment
$9,000 paid in full
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Contained Installments
Three payments of $3,300
Secure Payment Link: https://www.lebogrand.com/entry
All work within the House is private and confidential.
Once your commitment is received, you will be formally welcomed and oriented into the House.
There is nothing to prepare.
There is nothing to prove.
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Lebo Grand

Non-Acceptance Message (After their application is successful)
Subject: Regarding Your Reflection
Thank you for the care and honesty you brought to your reflection.
At this time, the House of Lebo Grand is not the right container for you.
This is not a measure of worth or readiness in life—only alignment with the specific pacing, structure, and orientation the House holds at this moment.
The work of refinement is deeply personal, and timing matters. When alignment is present, it is usually felt without force or explanation.
We encourage you to continue listening to what is quietly forming you.
With respect,
Lebo Grand
The House of Lebo Grand
Post-payment confirmation (this matters a lot)
You need two emails, with different purposes and tones:
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Administrative payment confirmation / Invoice. (This can be automated by Stripe/Paypal)
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House confirmation email (relational, non-transactional). Send manually within 24 hours of payment.
Subject: You Have Entering the House
Your entry into the House of Lebo Grand is confirmed.
You are now held within the Initiation.
Your first mentoring session will be scheduled shortly. You will receive a brief orientation before that session.
Until then:
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Do not try to prepare
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Do not rehearse
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Do not evaluate yourself
Let your system settle.
More will be shared when it is time.
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Lebo Grand

Scheduling the first official session
Subject: Your First Metoring Session
Hi Sarah,
Your first mentoring session will be scheduled shortly.
Please let me know which of the following times works for you:
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Tuesday at 15:00 SAST
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Wednesday at 18:00 SAST
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Friday at 10:00 SAST
Once you've confirmed, a calendar invitation will be sent with all session details.
Warmly,
Lebo Grand

The House Welcome Ritual (simple, embodied, non-theatrical)
Ritual structure:
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You open with one line:
"Welcome to the House."
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A brief pause (let it land)
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Ask one question only:
What slowed down when you entered?
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Let her speak uninterrupted.
Begin the work.
No candles required. No scripts. Presence is the ritual.

First-session orientation message (sent24-48 hours before the first session)
Subject: Orientation for Your First Session
Your first session is not a performance, an update, or a confessional.
It is an arrival.
Come as you are.
Speak from what is alive, not what is urgent.
Silence is welcome.
Nothing needs to be solved.
This House works with rhythm, not pressure.
Depth, not speed.
We begin by listening.
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Lebo Grand

What if none of the times work for her?
Subject: Re: Scheduling your first session
Hi Sarah,
Thank you for letting me know.
Please share two or three alternative times over the coming week that would suit you, and I'll confirm one of them.
All sessions are held in SAST.
Warmly,
Lebo Grand
Sidenote
Avoid language like:
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"No problem at all! When are you free?"
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"Send me your calendar"
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"We can do anything that works for you:
That shifts the House into service mode, not mentorship containment.

